That relationship!

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These days we have various relationships, you have someone specifically for going shopping, someone special with whom you go buying books, someone with whom you go on dinners, and someone with whom you can talk on and onโ€ฆ

I donโ€™t know much about emailing friends and writing letters having done it scarcely but all I can say about this is I feel immensely exultant when I have someone whom I can talk to in writing. I cannot say for others but I have some friends with whom I might not have met often, with whom I never shopped, neither went on dinners but when we โ€˜talkโ€™ it is absolutely different, it is almost like no one else can understand you.

These very few and precious friends of mine obviously do get sometimes frustrated with my callous ignorance but they are always there. We might not even call each other; just texting would suffice where we would pour our hearts out. (It is almost like โ€˜Youโ€™ve got mail!)

You know, texting may sound weird, but when someone truly loves you they donโ€™t just say โ€˜kโ€™ or โ€˜coolโ€™ they just ramble on and honestly I love these people who know I wonโ€™t be able to express myself unless in writing and who would take out their time and literally โ€˜typeโ€™ out long messages for you.ย  It is like they care for you and not for the fact that they you donโ€™t have much time to go out with them since you are long apart.

It is totally different from other relationships, without any expectations apart from the fact that theyโ€™d listen to you and it is purely precious. Otherwise where do you get such people these days, whoโ€™d listen to you and your unending pathetic feelings instead of going out in a club and shutting out your voices beneath the loud music?

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30 responses to “That relationship!”

  1. pranamyaakella Avatar
    pranamyaakella

    I’m always here to listen. โค
    And, I'm one of those who writes a lot without any reflections or at least acknowledgements. Sad. But, happy that I'm there for somebody. ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      yes the fact that you are there is in itself a great thing for someone.

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  2. Anaida Avatar

    I like texting over calling because I feel one can always express oneself better through writing and words. Specifically, long paragraphs from friends indicate that they actually do care about us rather than short abbreviations.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Yes dear I totally agree with you on this.

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  3. jac forsyth Avatar

    That’s coz you’re a writer. We’re all about the story, babe.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I think you are right, we just want to keep on reading and keep on writing. don’t we?
      But writer? Me? Too flattered, I don’t think I am of that much worth?

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      1. jac forsyth Avatar

        Ah, but I’ve read your stuff, you have such a beautiful and unique way of writing. ‘Writer’ is a scary hat to wear, but when it totally owns you, I don’t think you have a choice.

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        ‘When it totally owns you’
        I am waiting for that day when it own’s me.
        But thanks a lot for your praise, it means a lot. It makes one feel that someone at least thinks your work to be worthy.

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  4. Akhila Avatar

    We only define it as a busy world . but there are people who can listen us, there are people with whom we can express anything, sometimes they come unexpectedly, without any shout outs.. Just they enter unknowingly in our world and stay there forever…

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Yes, it’s a blessing if the stay but what if the leave?
      It sure aches then..
      Thanks a lot for your words though. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  5. Rajat sharma Avatar
    Rajat sharma

    Nice

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you.

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  6. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

    So well written Moushmi and today we r living in a computer age where people have forgotten to speak to each other though there r our friends who still do.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Yes, totally agreed.
      There are people who know our worth and there are some who don’t, it’s just like that.

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      1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

        Yes absolutely Moushmi.

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  7. Infinite Living Avatar

    Yes, these are truly precious relations, blurring the line between the virtual and real …as there is so much thoughtfulness in the texting that it makes up for being there in person.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Yes, totally agreed.
      It is totally different. ๐Ÿ™‚

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      1. Infinite Living Avatar

        ๐Ÿ™‚

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  8. buddy71 Avatar

    Idk…I like doing all that with just one person. ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      ๐Ÿ™‚

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  9. lamarrwenrich Avatar

    Connecting to each other is a gift
    Relationships should never be taken for granted.. love this post ๐Ÿ˜Š

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much, I am so glad you liked it. ๐Ÿ™‚

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      1. lamarrwenrich Avatar

        Thank you for sharing ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  10. Alfaazon ki udaan Avatar

    sunne ko hamesha taiyaar hain,ek baar apna banakar to dekho
    duniya itni kharaab nahi,bharose ka diya jalakar to dekho

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      WOW!
      Such amazing lines, just loved it.
      Thank you so much for sharing ti here.

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      1. Alfaazon ki udaan Avatar

        Lov u sweetheart…keep smiling

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        After such beautiful words, who wouldn’t? ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ˜€

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      3. Alfaazon ki udaan Avatar

        ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜™

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