Another social gathering

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I think I am having too many social gathering these days. Anyways, I was there sitting among-st my peeps, all dressed up and engrossed in what was going on around. Well, it was a ‘jagran’ (where you are awake all night and sing spiritual songs/bhajan).

I for a fact like these occasions, it is an absolute change from all of your arduousness. So there I was sitting beside my cousin almost singing to the rhythms when something caught my attention. And how I perceive is something like this.

Haven’t the present generation heard a lot about being anti-socializing in the form of socializing and even about being too much on their phones and over the net? But there are exceptions. So this might not be wrong. It’s true that we are drifting away from socializing in the form of socializing but the reality also has it other side. In my gathering there were very few people from present generation and anyways this is not about them. What I saw was that the older and the dear ones were busy engrossed on their cell-phones. Though some of them were obviously wholly-devoted but some of them were more interested in ‘sharing’ what they were seeing. I saw people over whatsapp chatting, someone sharing a video to the other who could not be present, snapchat was also to be seen, oh and yes I literally saw a check in for this too on my feed post. So is it only the present generation that is all caught up in ‘seizing the moment?’

It is good to capture something but what about also trying to at least live the moment too. We all click pictures and take videos but what about staying in the present too?

They say that the present generation is not that ‘religious’, I say “may be not” but what about pretending to be too religious and being present physically while the mind wanders to a distant land where some altogether another dream is coming true. For me nothing is wrong in that too but then why criticize when someone else does it and try make it right for yourself.

Anyways it was fun for a change to see the reverse.

 


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127 responses to “Another social gathering”

  1. MomoxMonroe Avatar

    Last week during my grandma’s wake, a lot of the older people there was asking me to put in the wifi password in their phones so they can access facebook, whatapp, etc. It certainly is a mix of ages now isn’t it? Everyone is so in tune with their technology that sometimes it comes off as sad.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I agree.
      I mean it’s not about the age anymore, everyone is caught up with the internet.

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      1. MomoxMonroe Avatar

        Yes, very true! It’s sad when there’s social gatherings and almost everyone is glued to their phones.

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I agree. We hardly talk to each other apart from the consideration of social media.

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  2. buddy71 Avatar

    Can one say…hypocrisy?

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      May be, I don’t know what to call it exactly.

      Like

  3. Mr.Lonely Avatar

    Snapchat one must be me😂😂

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hahaha
      I don’t think I saw you. 😀

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      1. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        How could you see me….I wasn’t there😅🤣

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I very well knew that,
        You might not be even in the same city. 😀

        Liked by 1 person

      3. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Which city?
        I am in Chennai and 2 days before was in Yelagiri for family outting☺☺

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        You seem to be roaming too much,
        Why not let you decide which city!!

        Like

      5. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        I am here in Chennai only… As college is here so…😓

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      6. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        So you from Chennai? Which college?

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      7. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        No I am from Kota,Rajasthan..
        I am studying here in Chennai.. in SRM Computer Science

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      8. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Oh that’s nice. Doing graduation or Masters?

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      9. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Bachelor’s

        Liked by 1 person

      10. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Oh nice,
        Good luck with that 🙂

        Liked by 1 person

      11. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        thank you..😁 You to tell something about you..

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      12. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Oh, shoot you question then?
        I will sure let you know what I can 😀

        Liked by 1 person

      13. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Tell anything…
        To start with your city…. studies…etc

        Liked by 1 person

      14. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hmmm
        I am doing a Masters program in literature and I stay in city called Jamshedpur, (Wonder if you even know it)

        Liked by 1 person

      15. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Nice… My parents stayed in Ranchi for sometime.. And I know Tata Nagar… Geography was my favourite..☺

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      16. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahaha
        Okay, for a change someone knows exactly where I live. Most of the people don’t tend to know this place.

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      17. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Oh come on…my people atleast peole of Jharkhand know😂

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      18. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Ya that’s true,
        Otherwise people stare me like I am from a different world altogether 😀

        Liked by 1 person

      19. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Aliens*stampede* sort of…?

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      20. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahahaha
        not even that bad.
        I don’t think I look that weird though.

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      21. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Was a wild guess😉

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      22. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hhahaha
        So let it be a wild guess only.. :-p

        Liked by 1 person

      23. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Okay okay… i believe Ur beautiful😁😉

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      24. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahaha
        You don’t have to believe, For me I am bearable enough. 😀

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      25. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        No words to say…😶

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      26. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        No boy ever has anything to say to this. 😀

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      27. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Okay ley me throw one if u can catch…
        “For me everyone is beautiful”☺

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      28. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Oh common, it is just what one says when one doesn’t have an answer to such things.

        Like

      29. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Change the topic then😓

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      30. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Okay, changed!! As you say Mr.!

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      31. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Changed but What’s the topic?
        And by the way I must admit that girl’s
        usually don’t change the topics so easily😉

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      32. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahahaha
        They don’t. It’s you that have to, :-p

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      33. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        But they can atleast suggest ?

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      34. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        They can. And they should :-p
        It’s not always that you have to suggest.

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      35. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        They should but it doesn’t happens… Like its not happening at this moment too😂

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      36. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yeah, that’s what I was trying to do.
        I know how much just irritated you might feel now 😀

        Liked by 1 person

      37. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Oh you are trying to irritate me…
        Mam its not that easy to irritate me..😜

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      38. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Okay, Then I quit now.
        My hands up, I am not up for irritating now 😀

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      39. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Good.. Try something else😜

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      40. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hmmmmm
        I could,
        Okay I change the topic. What are your likes? Any favourite pass time?

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      41. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Singing and thinking😁

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      42. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Oh just thinking?
        Cause over thinking has always been my forte 😀
        I think, then rethink and probably think till I forget what actually I was thinking
        LOL

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      43. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Same here excessive thinking till I get so tensed that it makes me depressed…
        Btw I am a person who likes to stay in past😢

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      44. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I used to be that person,
        But sadly I have learn through incidents enough that, that is not that good a habit if something in the past is troublesome.
        It never leaves you in good mood.

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      45. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        True… But some momories make me nostalgic

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      46. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yes, and when they do then why cling onto something which isn’t going to come back.

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      47. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        but its always puts a smile on…
        I am not advocating for remembering bad incidents but those too are instances which tell one to learn something and not repeat in future

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      48. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yes, now that I agree with.
        Atleast then we know what to avoid in future, that is if we have learnt from our mistakes.

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      49. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Ya…I think you have learned to much.. Just kidding😜

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      50. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I cannot unlearn it though :-p

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      51. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Teenage is something which gives one each and every taste of humanity..😊

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      52. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hmmmm
        May be you are right.
        But sometimes it’s not about teen age. Some people may be too young and yet very wise and also vice versa.

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      53. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        True.. I got it you were wise right from childhood😎

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      54. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        And now you are just pulling my leg.

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      55. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Is it soo.. I was saying seriously..
        Intelligent girl😉

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      56. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahaha
        No no not that much, Just enough to understand what one’s trying to say. 😀

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      57. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Quite enough to understand what I am saying😂

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      58. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahahaha
        may be. :-p

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      59. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Learn to believe in yourself…
        You are really wise.. and understanding😇🤗

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      60. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        HAHAHAHA
        Understanding? I can still believe that but ‘Wise? Are you really kidding me? I’ve never heard that for myself.

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      61. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Now make a habit to hear that..
        Seriously saying believe in yourself..
        Act like one you want to become..

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      62. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        That’s one hell of an advice. thank you.
        Look who’ being wise!!

        Liked by 1 person

      63. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        What you want to happen in your life which will make you confident about calling yourself wise?

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      64. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I don’t know.
        A wise person could be anything from a home maker to a working woman. It depends on how you perceive life.
        But for me to Become an author may be? 😀

        Liked by 1 person

      65. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Author, poet and a beautiful narrator you already are you are just brushing up your skills 😊

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      66. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        You are too sweet to say that.
        I don’t think I am any of that now. But one day, may be!

        Liked by 1 person

      67. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Surely you are and in future you will be queen of this

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      68. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahaha
        Okay! Enough of my praises please!

        Liked by 1 person

      69. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Bored with it?
        Strange girl

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      70. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yeah, Of course,
        How many praises am I to listen to about myself.
        Talk about yourself then.

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      71. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        I can’t talk much I am introvert as you can easily make out

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      72. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Then stop being one.
        Seriously I have been on both sides and I know that doesn’t help at all.

        Liked by 1 person

      73. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Ohh.. then you say something to start with

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      74. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        What makes you say you are an introvert?

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      75. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Someone very near to me mentioned it once

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      76. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        You could change, that is if you want to.

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      77. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Alone how could one overcome introvert nature?

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      78. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Be with someone then, trying coming out of your comfort zone.

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      79. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Friends are here but no one who can pull me put of my shell

        Liked by 1 person

      80. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yaaar..
        not fair.

        Liked by 1 person

      81. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        See.. i am so nerd… No one to help😑

        Liked by 1 person

      82. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        There will never be a person to help.
        You will have to do it for yourself.
        The only person who will truly want good for you is either you yourself or your parents.

        Liked by 1 person

      83. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Oh.. writer inside you is speaking…😉
        I can myself open up and parents live far far away

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      84. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Why?
        Where do you live?

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      85. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Chennai😢

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      86. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        And parents?

        Liked by 1 person

      87. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Kota(Rajasthan)

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      88. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hmmm
        That’s the life we choose.

        Liked by 1 person

      89. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Yaa… Nothing can be done..
        But its all fine..
        Life gives next experience, people and places..😊

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      90. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yes, that’s the pros of living at a new place.

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      91. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Ya.. you are experienced..so..I believe😊

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      92. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahaha
        Pulling my leg, again?

        Liked by 1 person

      93. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        No seriously you are experienced than me…so I said

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      94. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        And how would you know that?

        Liked by 1 person

      95. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        By your matured attitude and writings..😁😇

        Liked by 1 person

      96. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hmmm
        Still can’t figure out if you are pulling ,my leg 😀

        Liked by 1 person

      97. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        And I can’t figure out Why you can’t digest your appreciation…😉

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      98. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Cause I have always had criticism more than the appreciation.

        Liked by 1 person

      99. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        So, think that I am somebody out of the league who appreciates you..:)

        Liked by 1 person

      100. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hmmm
        Hard to digest, but I’ll try.

        Liked by 1 person

      101. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Better do make it a habit..
        Bcz a lot more appreciation is yet to come …. ;p

        Liked by 1 person

      102. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Oh okay.
        My post are waiting then 😀

        Liked by 1 person

      103. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Readers are waiting more eagerly..😅
        Btw I am sorry for spaming your comment section🤣🤣

        Liked by 1 person

      104. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Wait what? You spammed? I din’t know, but why?

        Liked by 1 person

      105. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Spam in the sense.. I commented on this post around 50 times..😐😂

        Liked by 1 person

      106. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahahah,
        Okay, then start commenting on my other posts which you might not have read. 😀

        Liked by 1 person

      107. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Yaa.. I will do that also..
        Won’t leave you so easily..😎😎🤣..
        Wait but tell me what did you thought by Spamming?

        Liked by 1 person

      108. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I don’t know, I didn’t use much of my brains there.

        Liked by 1 person

      109. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        I got it your mind is always wandering for food na?🤣

        Like

  4. Carolyn Page Avatar

    Without naming any names (to protect this individual) she was a keen, may I say overly keen, photo snapper. When at an event, there she could be seen taking images of everything and everyone (to be shared on social media). Over the past year she has not been ‘snapping’ as many images and is actually enjoying being present and enjoying the moment. She now remarks that she spent much of her life recording every moment, but without the ability to just be in the moment. She is now looking at others doing similarly, and has compassion for their lack of inner peace.
    There are times, I believe, for all things, including the wonderful technology available to us; I use it to suit me, too. However, when it becomes the main focus of life; it certainly appears a tad sad.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Yes, thank you so much.
      The technology is good but it just becomes too sad when you are completely dependent on it rather than enjoying in the moment. Your friend has found her way of enjoying cause she may ‘record’ now but she might not be ‘only recording’

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  5. supersirriousmom Avatar

    I’ve noticed this with my family too!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hi,
      Thank you for stopping by and leaving behind what you feel.
      Sometimes it is just that way, isn’t it? Internet has captured us a lot these days.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. supersirriousmom Avatar

        Yes, it definitely has. Thank you for the great read!

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        My pleasure dear. 🙂

        Liked by 1 person

  6. uneasycalm Avatar

    Specially liked the conclusion….very true!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much dear,
      I truly appreciate your comment.

      Liked by 1 person

  7. Prakash Hegade Avatar

    Something that technology has brought in. It does have left impact on every generation.

    Well expressed post. We see all this in every possible events these days. 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much.
      Yes be it a social gathering or one is at a simple dinner. avoiding technology is quite a task!

      Liked by 1 person

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