Get a life

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I met this guy a few days back…

I do not know what you would conclude after the first line but I wouldn’t just jump up to the conclusion that I like this guy or I want something to do with him; but apparently I live in a kind of society where when a girl talks to a man in a friendly manner he has to be ‘something more than a friend’.

I am not the kind of person who would blend easily but once I am comfortable one could be my really good friend in a couple of days and this happened with this person. So I met him and we really connected, I mean we like each other’s company; at least I think that ways and hence we have been spending too much time together. My family doesn’t seem to have any problems and neither does his but seemingly the ‘society’ has. People have been passing lewd comments on us and have made it almost intolerable for me to listen to them.

I simply do not care about people but there is a point after which it just gets into your nerves and you want them to go get a life. I mean even if he is my boyfriend why is it such an issue to the people around? I am truly humiliated in a past couple of days by the ways people have been talking about me and these are the times when I regret staying in India.

 


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26 responses to “Get a life”

  1. Fab Writings Avatar

    Who cares about the society when your closed ones don’t mind.
    see, I read this something so beautiful that I can’t explain in words, it was like
    “be who you are, do what you want, say what you feel
    because those who mind doesn’t matter, and those who matter doesn’t mind”

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Yes I know I do not care, it just gets too personal sometimes. Anyways I am trying to get the best out of everything.

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      1. Fab Writings Avatar

        🙂

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  2. sudershana Avatar

    Those who have time to interfere and think about other’s lives are good for nothing, they don’t even have anything to do with their own lives. Even I do have a best friend and yes, many think the same that you have explained. But that doesn’t matter as for the first reason he is the son of my father’s best friend so family don’t have any and its about 7 yrs now people around also realise the same. Rather than thinking about them don’t you think we must value this valuable time and enjoy. I am more excited to know what will happen next. Pls do share with us.
    Good luck

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I will share dear if there is anything to share. And honestly I am enjoying this time a lot since I started ignoring the ones who do not matter. Thanks a lot.

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  3. buddy71 Avatar

    well it seems the black hole of the internet swallowed my first comment.
    I know how you feel as I have felt the eyes, words and hands of those who do not approve of my choice of women to be with.
    big HUGS.
    no matter how this situation turns out, make it a learning time in your life.

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    1. Fab Writings Avatar

      Hahah, black hole is actually swallowing comments on this wp…
      Mine are also stolen, we meed to catch this culprit…
      Haha

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    2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Well I am trying. I certainly do not care about people agreeing to my choice all I want is people not interfering in my personal lives and that is surely asking too much.

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  4. Josh Avatar

    Never mind! Be happy.. dont worry about the society, they don’t really cares you know 🙂

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I hope so. I try to ignore.

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  5. exoticnita54 Avatar

    Hey 👋…
    you have all the approval you need from everyone that really matters..

    You life is your own..
    you are only responsible for yourself..

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Yes, thank you. I have moved past it and have locked up my mind against people who do not matter.

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      1. exoticnita54 Avatar

        Good 😊.,

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  6. michnavs Avatar

    It has been said many times by many people that we shouldnt mind what other people think about us..we should believe in ourselves..etc…etc..
    But i understand how you feel…and its pretty much normal to feel that way despite of all the awareness on that matter..

    Stand high and still though…

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Oh yes I am trying with all my might. “Ignoring” is the answer I guess.

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  7. Such Different Skies Avatar
    Such Different Skies

    If they don’t know you personally then don’t take their words personally…never let their words spoil your mood…stay happy 🙂

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this! It’s just easier said than done. However I am trying and it’s proving helpful.

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      1. Such Different Skies Avatar
        Such Different Skies

        If it’s proving helpful then I’m so happy for you !!

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Me too 😀

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  8. Karthik Pillai Avatar

    Well…. End of the day all that matters is your happiness that ultimately becomes the happiness of your family. I know it’s hard to say just chuck the society however one thing that I’m very sure about is, you won’t be drenched into it for long. 😇😇

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Oh yes, I think I am already out of it. It bothered me too much for the first couple of days but now I roam with him wherever I want. In the end I am happy and no one that matters to me has a problem with that. I am trying to just ignore the society!!
      Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts on this, 🙂

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      1. Karthik Pillai Avatar

        That’s the spirit. Bleed beautiful words.

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Thank you so much!

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  9. MyMindSaysBlog Avatar

    this always comes in my mind..”Our soldiers fight with terrorists on the border, but who’s gonna fight with terrorists in our society??”

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I think people like us!!

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      1. MyMindSaysBlog Avatar

        Absolutely….

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