Marry someone who could be..

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Marriage? Just how big a decision it is? Enormous, right? Who to marry? When to marry? Is the person right for you? And many more unanswered questions pop into one’s head when thinking about this earth-shaking resolution.

So me and my friend we were sitting in the food court of a mall, sipping coffee and discussing over this very subject. Well, even we could not conclude to any answer and ended up saying it is contingent to every individual. But he said something very deep, something that kept me smiling the entire day.

“You love reading books so marry someone who can be your book, whose pages are unending, whose words mean always something new to you. The book that imparts wisdom, makes you laugh, makes you cry, tells you the truth but also lies to you to make you smile, whose words make you wonder again and again, who is a puzzle, a mystery you love to solve, a book that has all the answers to your questions. A book that you want to read again and again. A book that may not be a bestseller but would surely be you’re ‘the only classic’. A book which after every read, you close it and stare at the cover smiling and you wish that it would happen all over again. So marry someone who could be your book.”

PS: The idea belongs to my friend’s philosophical mind but I took the liberty to exaggerate it.

So what are your thoughts on it? Do you agree? Would you have it any other way? Would you marry someone like this?


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72 responses to “Marry someone who could be..”

  1. cs_poetry Avatar

    Wow written

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much dear.

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  2. Judy Redic Avatar

    Hi there, I got the honor to nominate you for this award. Kindly check.

    The Mystery Blogger Award

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much.
      I sure will as soon as I can .

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      1. Judy Redic Avatar

        Sure, take your time 😊

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  3. shivamwrights Avatar
    shivamwrights

    Well, quite a very philosophical, & intriguing guy he would be who has got such ideology ov’r the concept. It just had my whole attention for sure!

    I must agree with him. Yeah, a guy must be a book, but more importantly, a guy must also have some knacks of “texturing” the thoughts of his lady by means of “scrawling” down an every inch of his novella right ‘pon the body of gurl ev’n without snatching the pleasure she deserved outta pain. In short, besides of being… good or bad book, he must be a “Quill” to his “Quinn” not just for allowing her read anything what she wants (from him, or what he servin’ to her), but also prioritizing her enough to carve ‘pon her soul just to make it delve in one not to make her feel good, but to make her feel blessed.

    Simply, marry someone who understands you. And understanding never comes easily. It takes real time to be understood.

    Here’s something for ya, gurl:

    “He can be your book. You can be his quill.
    He may write you down or may fill your wills’
    You just have to find, but what will you gotta find?
    Marriage ain’t no game, & its thoughts’ve us entwined.
    You don’t needa make him what you want;
    ain’t believe what you barely see throu; naked eyes.
    Simply, Marry the guy who ain’t just marry you…
    but also “care (s) enough to ask you if you ‘ight”.
    Be his novella. Let him be your book.
    Or let him be a pen just writing down what you unhook.”

    Good luck, Moushmi.
    Wishing you the best for your life ahead. May you find the right one to walk along for life!

    Also, kinda liked your post. But above all, enjoyed reading the philosophy of your friend as well. Very catchy, & so captivating thoughts he cracked ov’r the concept. For a moment, i was like: “whats? a book? oh dear, hope it’s gonna sell in bulk, man.” lol xoxo (kidding)

    Looking forward to readin’ your blogs, shortly.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hi there,
      Thank you so very much for these beautiful words.
      I have to say I couldn’t stop smiling reading every inch of your words.
      Thy were deep!!
      And you couldn’t have understood or interpreted any of this any better.
      Thank you so much for stopping by otherwise I would have missed this whole thought of yours.
      And I would be simply happy if he could be my pen, the rest we’d jot down in our specific journey.

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      1. shivamwrights Avatar
        shivamwrights

        That’s a spirit of real gurl!! Liked your attitude. Have at it, gurl. I’m sure would be lukin forward to readin ur blogs. Stay in touch!

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        SUre 🙂

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  4. Abhishek Choubey Avatar

    The idea is great but the question which rises is that why is it not easy to get the right person who can be the book you wish had endless pages, each telling a new story. To be looking for that one person who you don’t even know exists, the one who might bump into you at some random bookstore or even on a bus stop. That one person you might see for once and the next moment he is gone, gone forever. So,the book idea is great but what are the chances of this happening with everyone and what if the other person may prefer a different ‘book’.
    Wouldn’t it be easy if we just stop thinking about this and start living a life where every moment is important and who knows, maybe one day we might run into each other’s ‘classic’☺

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank for your thoughts and I agree that why should we keep searching for that book and not live our lives to our fullest, in the moment.
      You are right on that, and of course there is no such guarantee for each and every one of us that ‘the one’ is waiting for us, but there are few lucky ones who do get their ‘classic’.
      I may not be one of them but there must be someone who might be reading the perfect book.

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      1. Abhishek Choubey Avatar

        True! And may many more of us get to read the perfect☺

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  5. cindy Avatar

    Interesting and fun read! I would like such a book!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much dear for the read and also sharing your thoughts here.
      Even I would love a book like this.

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      1. cindy Avatar

        Welcome! Good luck with your own special book🙂👍

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  6. y4yadu Avatar
    y4yadu

    Well written Moushmi…;)

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you yadu

      Like

  7. Jothish Joseph Avatar

    Wow! That was a really amazing way of describing how to choose your future partner. Really amazing!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much.
      I truly appreciate your reading it and putting down your thoughts too.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Jothish Joseph Avatar

        😊

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