High Heels

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Click clock, click clock I was walking on my extremely high block heels. Not a fan of them but itโ€™s a big plus when you have to dance with a partner who is considerably tall. As always late, I was almost running in them when my foot bended sideways and I just stumbled and gained back my posture just in time, not to fall. I had a big laugh on my stupidity, I am not a perfectionist in walking them, let alone run. What was I thinking? But then I was not the only one who was laughing at me. There was a bunch of โ€˜boysโ€™ who were enjoying my fall too.

I didnโ€™t care. They were just boys I did not know, I did not care for and who clearly werenโ€™t worth giving a thought. I might not have given them another thought too, hadnโ€™t they passed a comment on me.

โ€œWhat does she think of herself, is she some model or something trying to flaunt her in dresses and heels and glasses? Is she trying to impress us?โ€ (This is just a sophisticated version of what they might have said) I mean who are they? Why would I have the need to impress some random boys standing and laughing and showing the least courtesy? I was just in a hurry for something clearly way important than what they were doing, smoking.

I was in full fury when I walked towards them despite the shortage of time when my partner came towards me and stopped me from doing or saying anything. I didnโ€™t even know what I was going to say or do to them but I was just walking when I was literally carried away from there.

I was about to run away as soon as put down but then the time did not permit me to do so and we rushed to the stage for the performance. It went all good, we danced and we were applauded, and we left the stage. I was all calm by then but then there he was, my partner leaving the stage with me, hand in hand, escorting me out. He knew very well, I just danced in them I could manage walking out too but it was his way of showing that he cared. That he was different from the boys who just laughed at my slip.

I might not have given this small incident a lot of thought, but then the two contradictory actions made me think. There are always two sides to something. There may be a bunch of men who do not know how to behave, but there are men who do know a lot apart from riding, stunting and trying to impress women.

 


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49 responses to “High Heels”

  1. Sifar Avatar

    Yes two sides to every coin!! We have to evaluate both before judgement. Many times the dark side is successful in maligning the overall image!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I know. And sadly that is what I see everytime.

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      1. Sifar Avatar

        ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”

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  2. thewritewomanblog Avatar

    Wise thoughts about high heels and a man with high character. You are so right, Moushmi, just two sides of the same coin.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks for your opinion dear.
      I really appreciate it.

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  3. Orange Avatar
    Orange

    That’s the problem with such jobless people. I wonder what makes them think they are so important that people around are merely trying to ‘impress them’. When those high heels would be thrown right at their faces na, they would know what they actually deserve.
    Anyways, they aren’t important. Great that you performed well. Hear me clapping and applauding Moushmi ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

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      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hahaha
      I do hear you.
      Thanks for appreciating this. It is these men who destroy the general image of men. I strongly believe that not all of them are same, but then I do know that these kind of men, are considerable more in amount and that they do not deserve or have the right to any kind of respect.

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      1. Orange Avatar
        Orange

        Indeed. I was in a class with 9 boys. All of them were really respectful and praiseworthy. I have met very few like this and I agree that not all guys are the same, just like not all girls are the same!

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yep, we have all come to generalise so easily, like all men are same, or all women are same, but it is not the case. Each human being is different.

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