Confusion

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Is it possible to love someone, wholeheartedly, and yet not like the person?

I mean not like his way of doing something, not like his beliefs, not like the way he simply judges other people, simply dismisses other people’s decisions.

PS: Just used the word ‘he’ randomly, it isn’t about any particular man. I am just wondering of it’s possibility. Can this happen, I mean love the person and yet not like him?


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56 responses to “Confusion”

  1. thedivergentpoet Avatar
    thedivergentpoet

    Yes, it does happen sometimes. Actually, happening with me right now๐Ÿ˜

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I am struggling with it too, and have no idea how to deal with these problems. I mean you love the person so much, but at the same time their habits and certain things that they say may just not make any sense.

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      1. thedivergentpoet Avatar
        thedivergentpoet

        Yes.. I know how bad such a situation is. Also when everyone else in this world hates that person like anything. And, loving that person just makes everyone else hate you too. And sometimes you yourself hate what they do.

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I can totally relate ๐Ÿ˜€

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  2. Akhila Avatar

    Was initially confused with your question..but reading the second para, it was clear.. it’s possible..you can love him deeply from the bottom of your heart and dislike his certain qualities

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you Akhila for your views on it.

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  3. Gouri (Gourav Anand) Avatar

    You know one thing I tell you true incident, earlier I use to believe that the way I am living my life is the best way, always disciplined, with certain rules, always confined to my self , not so much social. And also used to like the same minded people and hating. life used to be a pile of boredom (which I realised later) then she came into life.. bindass, adiyaal, no fear., Living her life on her own rules. And the best part being a hate monger for such ideology I fell in love. And same happened vice-versa. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I am glad something so wonderful happened to you. Good luck with your partner. I wish you both a lot of happiness. ๐Ÿ™‚

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      1. Gouri (Gourav Anand) Avatar

        Thank you Moushmi!!

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  4. Sonal Dugar Avatar

    Yeahhh absolutely it is possible. It has happened with me like you had read in my previous post..”WHAT IS SHE UP TO”!!๐Ÿ˜

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Oh yes, that was sure an excellent example of this situation.

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  5. Mona Avatar

    This is quite possible… I do not like several things my parents believe in but I still love them. I even had a crush in college whom I didn’t like at all…and for my boyfriend, well I hate him but i love him..hope you get this! ๐Ÿ˜›

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Of course I get you. I get you so completely.
      This is just what I was talking about.

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  6. crashingstone Avatar

    We love the whole package and like and dislike what’s in it!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I guess, you are right in a way!
      Thanks dear for stopping by.

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      1. crashingstone Avatar

        My pleasure keep up the good work ๐Ÿ™‚

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        You too ๐Ÿ™‚

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