Human Nature? Or just a selfish trait?

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I have learned one thing over time, I might be wrong, or it may depend on individuality but it has often been true for me.

People tend to not like sad stories, by stories I donโ€™t mean plot or novels, I just mean situations. They tend to almost hate it when we talk about sad and depressing situations going on in our lives, but in return they still expect to get an ear or two when they themselves are in such gloomy circumstances.

How justifiable is this?

 


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52 responses to “Human Nature? Or just a selfish trait?”

  1. A Avatar
    A

    I feel this is just human nature of being selfish .

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      Moushmi Radhanpara

      WOW! That was well compiled.

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  2. A Avatar
    A

    Thanks

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  3. Confused Thoughts Avatar

    Indeed !
    We really don’t want to listen sad stories .

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      Moushmi Radhanpara

      ๐Ÿ™‚

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  4. Love it Now Avatar
    Love it Now

    well, then I must be an exception – I listen to different sad stories but I don’t like to share mine ๐Ÿ˜€

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I am one of them too, who doesn’t like to share their own stories, but when I do want to, I meet such people and any thought of discussing private matters just vanishes into thin air.

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      1. Love it Now Avatar
        Love it Now

        Was it always like that? Because perhaps somewhere in the past the reactions of people made you lose the hope to be heard and it stays so deep memorized in your system that you attract only this kind of people, could it be?

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yes this could absolutely be.
        Foe before, I used to discuss my plans, what’s going on with me, and everything in my mind, but over time it seemed no one cared, no one wanted to listen, so I just stopped ever talking about personal stuff.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you ๐Ÿ™‚

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  5. radhikasreflection Avatar

    Truly a selfish human trait in many ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

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      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks Radhiks ๐Ÿ™‚

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  6. Kaycee Avatar

    Can’t say for sure. Thanks dear for giving something to think about..

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      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I am pleased ๐Ÿ™‚

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  7. Meet Avatar

    Bitter truth! I’ve experienced it many times. But let’s make sure we don’t come across like to someone ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Yes, we can just skip these people.
      Thanks a lot for stopping by and telling me your thoughts on this, much appreciated! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  8. Prajakta Avatar

    I have also seen the opposite … Sad stories become gossip!

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      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I know, they have a fun time of chatter from someone else’s misery!

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  9. aquibview Avatar

    Hey, don’t judge me, but I tried posing that dude in the picture and told my to take a snap. Lol. That white teeth, a close up advertisement . (pass aao, pass aao na)lol๐Ÿ˜‚.
    But I think you should not over think, like how it is said, don’t sweat the small stuffs. You just say and bam over you said, if the response comes, we’ll and good, if it didn’t, let it go, let it go, cold never… And that person is giving being hypocrite, they are getting trap in their own bog. Don’t give a damn. Keep smiling.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hahaha, I am no one to judge you!
      But yes that would have been really funny, with the same pose and all ๐Ÿ˜€
      I am not overthinking it but am just surprised at their self centered behaviour.
      But thank you for this reminder, I don’t need to give them a lot of thought ๐Ÿ™‚

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