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Breaking Apart!

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Somehow, I do not agree with people who keep saying that you are strong, that you can do it, you must not break down, even when you see the person in a state where he sees nothing but darkness. Forgive me, but I just cannot bring myself to say that you have no right in breaking down.

I feel, that we all have the right to break apart sometimes, fall to the lowest of your levels, shatter into as many pieces as you want, for only when you are at your lowest, do you realise that there is nowhere else to go but, somewhere above it.

Breaking apart could be wrong, only and only when it becomes a habit. So,

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50 responses to “Breaking Apart!”

  1. shalini Avatar
    shalini

    Break apart, cry, and then come back stronger – that is rejuvenation

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I agree Shalini.

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  2. ~H@rdip~ Avatar
    ~H@rdip~

    That’s so intense, I like the last quote 👍 it’s motivating

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks a lot.

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  3. Riman Ray Avatar
    Riman Ray

    Breaking down is necessary sometimes…. for our ownselves .

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I absolutely agree.

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  4. adiscardedplant Avatar
    adiscardedplant

    A great write, indeed!! I like the idea of this ‘breaking apart’ or falling to one’s lowest levels. Since I personally came up from that ‘lowest’ level, I am not scared of losing positions or possessions!!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much for understanding.

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  5. radhikasreflection Avatar
    radhikasreflection

    Absolutely. Holding up pent up emotions can do more damage. So letting them go will help one emerge stronger. Thanks for the quote. A beautiful one Moushumi 🙂

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much Radhika.

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  6. Sakshi Avatar
    Sakshi

    Oh breaking down can be therapeutic……it’s cathartic …… I second you 😊. I trained myself never to show my tears ……..and trust me till date I sometimes get hard on myself but showers are great places to shed your tears wash your face and move on🤗😝😜

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hahaha. I see more resemblance in us now.
      Well, showers are really helpful when it comes to hiding our feelings and venting out at once. But that is the irony I am talking about. We as people have become so senseless today that we cannot accept someone breaking down, either we diminish them or we don’t consider their feelings. which is why people like us find places like bathrooms and rainy days to cry out and relieve the tears. Ummm, I don’t know, am I making any sense?

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      1. Sakshi Avatar
        Sakshi

        U totally are ……I get your point . Every one is ready to jump on to a judgement and my personal problem is pity …… empathising is fine but pls keep ur sympathy in your pockets ….now am I making sense🤔

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Absolutely!! We don’t want pity. We don’t even want them to understand our problems and our feelings. All we want is an effort to just be there and not be all judgemental.

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      3. Sakshi Avatar
        Sakshi

        Ahaaa hi5 mate …..lol I am happy to have found someone alike😜

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahaha. You cannot know how much the feeling is mutual. 😀

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      5. Sakshi Avatar
        Sakshi

        🤗😍💕

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      6. Riman Ray Avatar
        Riman Ray

        Can I join😅
        Cause I can totally relate

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      7. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahaha, you are most welcome Riman.

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      8. Riman Ray Avatar
        Riman Ray

        True that…people only judge .. for them that’s the easiest thing to do for… I guess

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      9. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        You can’t help these people.

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      10. Riman Ray Avatar
        Riman Ray

        And actually who cares😅
        It hurt sometimes but…ya..let them judge
        Let them live in their OWN world ..right

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      11. Riman Ray Avatar
        Riman Ray

        Exactly!!!!
        Keep your sympathy in your pockets..

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      12. Sakshi Avatar
        Sakshi

        Riman ….welcome to the clan 😜 . I agree with your points dear

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      13. Riman Ray Avatar
        Riman Ray

        Thank you sakshi😄

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      14. Sakshi Avatar
        Sakshi

        🤗💕

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    2. parikhitdutta Avatar
      parikhitdutta

      I used to walk in the rain and cry! It’s sadly beautiful or beautifully sad. Could be either 🙂 And it’s always nice to embrace every emotion, ain’t it.

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      1. Sakshi Avatar
        Sakshi

        It’s best to embrace everything that belongs to you ………I agree with you Parikhit 😊

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      2. parikhitdutta Avatar
        parikhitdutta

        Often so many have told me that shun sorrow but like you and Moushmi write every emotion counts. It is rightfully ours.

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      3. Sakshi Avatar
        Sakshi

        Totally and my recent experience says ….you should always allow a person to empty the vessel …… shunning never helps …let it flow

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      4. parikhitdutta Avatar
        parikhitdutta

        Couldn’t agree more 🙂

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      5. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I agree with you. Every emotion counts, and we cannot simply run away form it.

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  7. iScriblr Avatar
    iScriblr

    Oh yes, absolutely! Everyone needs to vent out once a while – it’s good for health!❤

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I agree with you. It’s only helpful to us.

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  8. Abhay Avatar
    Abhay

    Good One!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks Abhay.

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  9. Rêveuse Avatar
    Rêveuse

    Profound 💛

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you 🙂

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  10. Thought for Change Avatar
    Thought for Change

    Yeah it is true. Sometimes we should break

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks dear.

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