Going Offline!

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I am not much of a technology person, and when I say so I literally mean that. You can call me technologically challenged too, but when time comes I do battle with all the advances that our technology has made and feel like I don’t know anything at all. All the same, I somehow manage to get my things done. I am pretty sure there are many people like me, who would rather let things be easy without the technology hassle.

But while technology has given us so many ways to make life easier for us, it has also given us 100 different ways of entertainment, not to forget innumerable sites and pages for social interaction, which finally brings me to my todays thoughts, which more or less bounce around the time that we waste/socialize in there. It might come out like I call socializing as a waste of time (and believe me if I could say so, I would.) but I am not saying so, but this has indeed and very sadly messed up with our minds and the way how we live our life.

And thinking over this I have been very determinedly trying to reduce my time wasted, glued to my phone. Nah-ah, it wasn’t my new years resolution which I am going to be trying for a couple of months and then leave it, rather I have been doing it for a few months now, and gradually I have reduced the time from a few shocking hours to a minimal time of 49 minutes a day, which mostly involved work related calls and texts, and also, very little time chatting over friends, not to forget a little bit of online reading.

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I have reduced my Facebook- Instagram- Twitter and any other socializing app, time to bare minimum, and only once a week. I was never much of a person who would fret over likes, comments on a post, but even then these apps have had an impact on me. And truthfully, without them it is, so, so peaceful! Even before though, I wouldn’t post anything there often, neither would I give them more than half an hour to them each day. But of course even this seemed more to me and hence the decision.

And believe me, it is so much more relaxing without all of them on my phone. Honestly, I feel that they give us a wrong and misguided direction in following how we ought to live our lives, how many friends we need to have, how much flawless we need to be, and even significantly to give importance to the fact that what others think of us.

 

I am not saying that social media is wrong; I am simply saying it was being unhealthy for me recently, and thus the effort. I must say- so far, so good 😉

 

 


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37 responses to “Going Offline!”

  1. Smitha V Avatar

    I hear u…and I can so relate. Am technologically challenged too. have been to get off social media and have reduced it to quite a bit. Just do reading of WordPress blogs. Just got my daughter to download the app that you’ve talked about to make a conscious effort. Thanks for this Moushmi 🙂 Can get more work done now.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      It was only my pleasure 🙂

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  2. स्वामी श्री Avatar

    No need to go offline just wait …

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      🙂

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  3. Sakshi Avatar

    I am screaming in agreement ………. My usage of all social media handles has reduced drastically by choice

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      That is extremely wonderful,,

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  4. Muntazir Avatar
    Muntazir

    I agree with you. Virtual world is very addictive and it diverts us from our real purposes. Thats a great decision you made. Keep it up. May Allah bless you

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks a lot.

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      1. Muntazir Avatar
        Muntazir

        My pleasure

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  5. Mr.Lonely Avatar

    Let me also follow you…

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Do follow..

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      1. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Behind you…

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        🙂

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  6. my valiant soul Avatar

    So proud of you to spill the bean.

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      Moushmi Radhanpara

      🙂

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  7. Indira Avatar

    Good…! I am not at all on the digital social platforms mentioned by you. Believe me, I don’t miss anything at all!!!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks for sharing your views.

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  8. Shantanu Baruah Avatar

    I so agree. I have consciously done that a while ago and lowered my social interaction. Funny while reading this post the iPhone gave me the message I am down 18% from last week. Here is to a clutter free life.
    On a separate note I watched the 7 episode web series Yeh meri family. A must watch series set in the late nineties. And the kids there had no cell phones and entertainment was limited to Sunday TV and mostly family time and outing. It was so cool

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I know right, I mean every kind of entertainment was better in the 90s.
      Todays kid do not enjoy that. Sadly, my 6 year old niece never leaves her tab, and only knows to play games online!

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      1. Shantanu Baruah Avatar

        Now you make me nostalgic or wait do I sound like I am too old 😂

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahaha, no you don’t sound anything old..

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      3. Shantanu Baruah Avatar

        Lol. Nice try 😊

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  9. iScriblr Avatar

    I so agree with you! This is the change that I would so want to see in myself!😊

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks Richa.

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  10. vishalbheeroo Avatar

    I agree social media or socializing in itself gets so unproductive. Being offline works and meeting few real people…need to check my notification to see how I can work on cutting screen time 🙂 Even technology is so complicated for me and prefer simple things of getting the job easy. Also, not on Insta and unsure whether I should join or not. Your post resonates me Moushmi:)

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks for sharing how you feel on this Vishal.

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      1. vishalbheeroo Avatar

        My pleasure 😀

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