To Be Worthy Or Not To Be!

It’s how life is!, Ramblings of my mind.

To Be Worthy Or Not To Be!

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Moushmi Radhanpara

10.06.2019

There are days when I write a four-line poem and am satisfied with my days product.

And then there are days when I go out for a walk, eat the best and the healthiest, pray, get an exceptional work out before sleep (if you know what I mean), rest, work, study for my papers, read a 100 pages of the book I am reading, write an angry poetry, watch a movie (everything not necessarily in the same order) and yet I am just not satisfied! It all still feels worthless and I don’t know what to do with myself.

It is somewhere in the middle that I want to be, trying to find a balance. I don’ want to overdo, and neither do I want to be worthless. But then again, who is to say, I might be just as worthless.

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51 responses to “To Be Worthy Or Not To Be!”

Sakshi

11.06.2019

Don’t we all sometimes get too harsh on ourselves ….self worth is a very important lesson to learn ……once done …. contentment follows …. I know it’s easier said than done …….but aren’t we all work in progress

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1. Moushmi Radhanpara
  
  13.06.2019
  
  Cheers, to work in progress then 😀
  Thanks so much for your share Sakshi.
  
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  1. Sakshi
    
    14.06.2019
    
    My pleasure Moushmi 🤗
    
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indianeskitchen

11.06.2019

Stop trying to please others and just please yourself. Life is wonderful when you figure out how to do that.

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1. Moushmi Radhanpara
  
  13.06.2019
  
  I agree, thanks so much.
  
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tomhudson

11.06.2019

I think all writers go through this from time to time, Moushumi. We start thinking that our writing isn’t very good, or we justl get bored with our routine. It feels like the myth of Sysiphus, who was cursed to roll a large boulder to the top of a mountain, just to have it roll back down again, and he would be forced to roll it back up, time after time, while the boulder keeps rolling back down again and again, for all eternity. And you begin to feel, what’s the point? But this dissatisfaction is all an illusion. We are just too hard on ourselves.

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1. Moushmi Radhanpara
  
  13.06.2019
  
  Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts Tom.
  
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  1. tomhudson
    
    14.06.2019
    
    You’re certainly welcome, Moushimi. Have a great day.
    
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iScriblr

11.06.2019

We all are work in progress! Don’t go that harsh on yourself!❤️❤️

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1. Moushmi Radhanpara
  
  13.06.2019
  
  Thanks Richa,
  
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Shantanu Baruah

11.06.2019

Remind of the song – why don’t you meet me in the middle 😊 – the human mind is miscreant and abstract – it is hard to comprehend – for me it helps when I have a pair of ears to speak out – did you try that?

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1. Moushmi Radhanpara
  
  13.06.2019
  
  I should try that out, then! 😉
  
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  1. Shantanu Baruah
    
    13.06.2019
    
    Lol. Let me know 😊
    
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Yasmin Khan

12.06.2019

I was like this a and I am like this and I will be like this.You aren’t alone🤗

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1. Moushmi Radhanpara
  
  13.06.2019
  
  Thanks Yasmin.
  
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vishalbheeroo

12.06.2019

This feeling of worthlessness often irks me from time to time…Guess what life often flung at us quite unfairly and there are days where nothing works and the rare ones, we can express happiness. Sending you love and light!

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1. Moushmi Radhanpara
  
  13.06.2019
  
  Thanks so much Vishal.
  
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dalenflynn

19.06.2019

Balance is always found, sometimes in very unlikely places

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1. Moushmi Radhanpara
  
  27.06.2019
  
  I agree, thanks so much.
  
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  1. dalenflynn
    
    27.06.2019
    
    My pleasure!
    
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eLPy

20.06.2019

I doubt it very much that you’re worthless! But I know those days that feel like there’s a dark spot in the corner of your mind-room you just can’t see into. You’re spot on for seeking balance because that’s really the best of both worlds, still wanting but also satisfied. Perhaps such days are the ones that are asking us to do something different, push the boundaries a little bit.

Best to you! 😀 Thanks for sharing.

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1. Moushmi Radhanpara
  
  27.06.2019
  
  Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing your thoughts.
  
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Ash

08.08.2019

I can definitely relate to this. I feel more worthy and accomplished when I’m productive but I’m learning that it’s really toxic to base of self esteem on what we produce. Self Worth is extremely important. Great post 💜

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1. Moushmi Radhanpara
  
  09.08.2019
  
  Thanks so much for stopping by, you do make a point.
  
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