Marry someone who could be..

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Marriage? Just how big a decision it is? Enormous, right? Who to marry? When to marry? Is the person right for you? And many more unanswered questions pop into one’s head when thinking about this earth-shaking resolution.

So me and my friend we were sitting in the food court of a mall, sipping coffee and discussing over this very subject. Well, even we could not conclude to any answer and ended up saying it is contingent to every individual. But he said something very deep, something that kept me smiling the entire day.

“You love reading books so marry someone who can be your book, whose pages are unending, whose words mean always something new to you. The book that imparts wisdom, makes you laugh, makes you cry, tells you the truth but also lies to you to make you smile, whose words make you wonder again and again, who is a puzzle, a mystery you love to solve, a book that has all the answers to your questions. A book that you want to read again and again. A book that may not be a bestseller but would surely be you’re ‘the only classic’. A book which after every read, you close it and stare at the cover smiling and you wish that it would happen all over again. So marry someone who could be your book.”

PS: The idea belongs to my friend’s philosophical mind but I took the liberty to exaggerate it.

So what are your thoughts on it? Do you agree? Would you have it any other way? Would you marry someone like this?


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72 responses to “Marry someone who could be..”

  1. sadia masood Avatar

    Earth shaking resolution!!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Isn’t it really is?

      Liked by 1 person

      1. sadia masood Avatar

        Yeah this could make you or break you. It absolutely is!

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Right on!!

        Liked by 1 person

  2. sudershana Avatar

    A creative mind he is. Marriage even this word terrified me,scares me. But I think it’s a big decision at least that must be taken by us not others should decide,I think you are getting my point. Marry the one who takes you to another world,haha.
    Great read✌👍

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you dear for the read.
      And yes it too scares me a lot!!

      Like

  3. Judy Redic Avatar

    Marry someone who will stay after he/she found out that you’re crazy. lol

    Liked by 2 people

    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I agree 😀

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  4. idiotchamp Avatar
    idiotchamp

    He really expressed marriage very nicely nd uniquely 😉 He wonderfully compares it with book 😉

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I totally agree.
      Thanks for the read dear.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. idiotviews Avatar
        idiotviews

        You are always welcome 😉 Nd thanks for sharing this 🙂

        Liked by 2 people

      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        The pleasure was all mine. 🙂

        Liked by 1 person

      3. idiotviews Avatar
        idiotviews

        Little pleasure was mine also 😉

        Liked by 2 people

      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Then I am just so happy about that, if anything that I write matters or makes a difference to other. 🙂

        Liked by 1 person

      5. idiotviews Avatar
        idiotviews

        Thanks for such a lovely comment 😉

        Liked by 1 person

  5. alaraoluwaseyi Avatar
    alaraoluwaseyi

    Awesome, I’ll marry someone like that anytime, any day and anywhere

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hahahaha
      I think me too.

      Liked by 2 people

  6. ʞɐ Avatar

    The bigger question is where can you find such people?

    Liked by 4 people

    1. sparklingpoems Avatar
      sparklingpoems

      In this beautiful world, indeed…..
      I know this world is not so beautiful, but there are some people who are beautiful in themselves. And many of them remain unnoticed……

      Liked by 3 people

      1. ʞɐ Avatar

        The question still holds without an answer. Yes, there are people who are beautiful inside. But then again this world is too huge and where would one be able to find the one ?

        Liked by 1 person

      2. sparklingpoems Avatar
        sparklingpoems

        Yeah agreed. But look around you, with your beautiful eyes you will surely find that ONE.

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      3. ʞɐ Avatar

        I have been looking around for quite a while. The ONE seems to be mystery to me.

        Liked by 2 people

      4. sparklingpoems Avatar
        sparklingpoems

        Don’t worry you’ll find ONE at the right time. Wish you luck. And may you get not just best but also with beautiful soul…

        Liked by 1 person

      5. ʞɐ Avatar

        I highly doubt it.
        But thank you. 🙂

        Liked by 1 person

      6. sparklingpoems Avatar
        sparklingpoems

        WHY???

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      7. ʞɐ Avatar

        Why? Why do I doubt it?
        Because I know me, and knowing me I am very much sure that it is very unlikely to happen.

        Liked by 1 person

      8. sparklingpoems Avatar
        sparklingpoems

        OK. But you can become that ONE for someone else.

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      9. ʞɐ Avatar

        Yeah may be, I could. But then again, knowing me I wouldn’t them to settle for something mediocre.

        Liked by 1 person

      10. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I completely agree, hold onto the hopes cause that unnoticed beauty might just land up and you never know.

        Liked by 1 person

      11. sparklingpoems Avatar
        sparklingpoems

        Yeah…

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    2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hi there,
      Why loose hope?
      There is such a person, trust me on that. I cannot simply say that you will find him/her at a particular point but yes, you will and that person will change your entire perspective of life.
      It might be too soon, too early but yes, one day you will!!!

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      1. ʞɐ Avatar

        Hey,
        I am not losing any hope, because I don’t have it in the first place to begin with.

        I believe you. I too hope that there is one for everyone.

        Too optimistic, I see.
        I am not disregarding your point of view. But I would to look at more realistic situations and well, I know me, hence I feel so.

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I guess everyone has their own point of view.
        But honestly, even I doubt myself sometimes. The fact that I can be a part of someone else’s life and that can be as important scares me and almost seems impossible to me.
        But then for me, I think “What’s the harm in dreaming?”
        PS: Please just don’t say that it’s more painful when those dreams shatter, just please. 😀

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      3. ʞɐ Avatar

        Completely agree.
        Though for me, being a part of someone else’s life doesn’t scare me at all. Because I know I am not going to take any part in that.

        You are right again. What’s the harm in dreaming? I can’t dream of things that are very unlikely to happen.

        P.S. On the contrary, you will live your dreams. All the best. 😀

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        HAHAHAH
        You cannot guarantee that but thanks for the optimism once.
        Just kidding,
        But sometimes it’s good if you let yourself get carried away by your sky-high aspirations.

        Liked by 1 person

  7. Ξnigma Avatar

    I thought you went on solo coffee trips.
    This is dhoka. 😦

    Jokes apart, he has quite a deep philosophical mind. Does he read?

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hahahaha
      There is no dhokha here, that was just a business-like meet. I still hold by my solo thoughts.
      And yes he does like to read but his busy schedule does not allow him much time.

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      1. Ξnigma Avatar

        That was a dhoka. You talk about marriages in business-like meetings, unless ofcourse you are looking for a suitor for youself.
        You do know why I asked you the question, right?

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yeah I do know that. He does read books.
        Also I shout say that the person I met is a friend cum business partner and the meet turned out from work like to personal stuff.
        And as in unexpected situations our conversations turned too deep which could barely handle and which is why this deep thought from his insane mind 😀

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      3. Ξnigma Avatar

        Shout say?
        You can just say.
        I was kidding about the whole business and marriage stuff. If you were talking about marriage in a business meetings, it would simply because you two know each other quite well.

        You don’t say.

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        It was I should say, a simple mistake 😀
        Why will I shout say it?

        Liked by 1 person

      5. Ξnigma Avatar

        Oh, okay.

        May be to emphasise perhaps! 🤔

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      6. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Ha ha ha.
        No. No. I had no such intentions.

        Liked by 1 person

  8. Ananya Sharma. Avatar

    Damn, I so loved the idea of your friend and your exaggerated version of his idea, Moushmi. ❤

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you.
      I am glad you loved this.

      Liked by 1 person

  9. sparklingpoems Avatar
    sparklingpoems

    This was a beautiful idea…..

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much for your read. I am glad you liked it.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. sparklingpoems Avatar
        sparklingpoems

        You are most welcome, dear.

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  10. Idle Muser Avatar

    Your philosophical friend definitely had a point, and associating this very idea of marriage to books gave marriage a whole new dimension, and you, Moushmi, by exaggerating his philosophy, did a good job. 🙂 Though ‘when’ to buy such book, is still a poser. 😉

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much and I completely agree that when to buy this is yet unknown but I think the book shall by all means land onto your bag without your own knowledge.

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      1. Idle Muser Avatar

        That is more scary though. To unexpectedly receive a completely unforeseen book.🙈
        But let us (me) hope for the best.😛

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yeah, ho[e for the best!
        That’s all we can do.

        Liked by 1 person

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