Confusion

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Is it possible to love someone, wholeheartedly, and yet not like the person?

I mean not like his way of doing something, not like his beliefs, not like the way he simply judges other people, simply dismisses other people’s decisions.

PS: Just used the word ‘he’ randomly, it isn’t about any particular man. I am just wondering of it’s possibility. Can this happen, I mean love the person and yet not like him?


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56 responses to “Confusion”

  1. Prashasti Patel Avatar

    Of course it happens.
    There is posibility of love.. still you don’t like the person. 😑

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      So it does happen? I thought I was the only one feeling this.

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      1. Prashasti Patel Avatar

        Yes. It happens. 😀

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I am glad that I am not the only one.
        Thanks dear.

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  2. my valiant soul Avatar
    my valiant soul

    For me love is synonym for liking.If I like a person I do love him/her.
    Great thought though!:)

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks for letting me know how you feel.

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      1. my valiant soul Avatar
        my valiant soul

        Sure.

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  3. kalyansparks Avatar

    Yeah..it happens…I know it happened with you…I have once a school crush..I like her a lot..maybe even now,but the way she do the things irritate me.But whenever I see her,my heart responds fastly,and even unable to control..but then again my mind interrupt and say” dude,she did this and that” and then I would back off..this not only happens in life be even in friendship.You adore a friend,you don’t know the reason why you adore him..but if he ignored you do some insult..mind never allow you..love is response of heart which you can’t control,but liking is related to our experiences and brain..soo yes…I think it happened with your ex

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Oh God no!
      Why does an ex have to be involved here.
      Why can’t be someone else involved?
      Thanks, anyway for letting me now how you feel about it.

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      1. kalyansparks Avatar

        Because one day you have said about yourselves and your flash back

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Ok may be, but everything doesn’t have to go back to the same person!
        It could be something else this time!

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      3. kalyansparks Avatar

        You may be right…!!!!!! But whenever I read your posts,I always don’t speak about flash back, whenever I feel you are feeling sad about something,I really can feel through your lines,soo this time it really is soo close..soo I thought the same..maybe I am wrong too moush

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahaha
        Yes you are wrong dear. It isn’t about any man in my life.
        Though I am glad you can read through the lines.

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      5. kalyansparks Avatar

        Ok…but I can relate that..because it happens sometimes with my friends..just only one or two..you want to spend time with them..but they don’t give a damn..still your heart pushes them to bother about them..we can’t like them but still we can’t stop to love them..love is not in our hands..

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      6. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I agree. Thank you 🙂

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      7. kalyansparks Avatar

        Cooooooooool moush

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  4. myexpressionofthoughtsblog Avatar

    An affection or love can make wonders

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you dear.

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  5. Gouri (Gourav Anand) Avatar

    Yes it’s possible ..

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks dear for your views on it.

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  6. kshitija Avatar

    Why not…its not neccesary to match with each an every attribute of ‘he’..
    We love our parents but still something disagree with them.but this doesnt means that we dont love them.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I know, right?
      Thank you so much for understanding. I was absolutely lost here. I mean we do love our parents, but sometimes we just do not like how they go about something.
      You gave an excellent example.
      Thank you so much.

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      1. kshitija Avatar

        U welcome great

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      2. kshitija Avatar

        Great you got what I want to tell you…
        Hope this was helpful to solve your delima.
        Good luck.

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      3. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        🙂

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  7. buddy71 Avatar

    maybe, but maybe this “love” is more like “lust?” those seem like major issues that would bring conflict in the relationship.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      It sure does. But what if isn’t about the usual concept of love? What if it is about some other relation altogether?

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  8. Mr.Lonely Avatar

    Yes, I does happen.. I am suffering from this now also…
    Its like You love the person but you don’t like his/her doing which harm you…

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I know, How are you dealing with them then, cause I am doing pretty bad here about these feelings.

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      1. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Let’s motivate you…. Always keep this in mind…
        “We shall overcome..We shall overcome…We shall overcome some day… Deep in my heart I do believe that we shall overcome someday…”…
        Be happy the time will pass😊

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Thank you so very much dear.
        I cannot thank you enough.
        I hope we do overcome soon. 🙂

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      3. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        You are welcome..
        Don’t worry and be happy.. 🙂

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        You too dear.

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  9. Mary Brearley Avatar

    I think women can get themselves into trouble this way. FInd a man who is a good friend, and then all will be well!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      What if it isn’t about a man woman relationship, what if it isn’t about the usual concept of love, what if the relation is absolutely different, any be that of sisters, cousins, or anything else?

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      1. Mary Brearley Avatar

        The same – be friends, the rest follows!

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Thank you dear,

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  10. brittanyzedalis Avatar
    brittanyzedalis

    It is very possible. I’ve loved, yet not liked, several people over the years.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much dear.
      I really appreciate your views.
      By the way, I am unable to visit your website.

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