Know the blogger #4

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  1. When was the last time you changed your opinion or belief about something major?

I was just like the people we hate, the judgmental. I stopped it when I realised how wrong I was. It isn’t fair to judge people without knowing their story. I was told that I am such a sad and lonely person, when the other person did not even really know me, my circumstances. I realised it then and I just somehow, brought myself to stop randomly judging people.

 

 

  1. What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?

When someone says that I wrote beautifully only I never know that if the compliment was true, or just for the sake of saying it. (I am sorry for saying this to all my lovely bloggers, it is not the lack of trust on you, it is because the lack of confidence in me)

 

  1. As the only human left on earth, what would you do?

If I had books, I’d survive for a while, but I’d be dead otherwise too.

 

  1. Who inspires you to be better?

I wrote a post about it some months ago, there has been never an inspiration. I have always struggled to make myself better, from not the example of others, but from their flaws. I mean if I find some “quality” that I don’t like in someone else, I know that, that has to be changed inside me too.

 

  1. What do you want your epitaph to be?

“I think therefore, I am”

 

  1. What haven’t you grown out of?

Soft toys!

 

  1. In what situation or place would you feel most out of place in?

Surrounded by sports fan!

  1. What’s the dumbest thing you’ve done that actually turned out pretty well?

I went to a city for my graduation for unsatisfactory reasons; like the reason was so dumb I cannot even bring myself to say it here. But it turned out pretty well.

 

  1. If someone wrote a book on an event in your life, what would the book be about?

The days of my wedding planning, and how I met so, so many new people there almost every single day. At least as of now, I guess this would be it.

 

  1. What’s something you will never do again?

Go crazy after a guy. I don’t think that’s happening.

 

  1. How do you hope you’ll change as a person in the future?

I don’t know, but I want to better by each passing day.

 

  1. What keeps you up at night?

Overthinking. What else could it be?

 

  1. What’s the most surprising self-realization you’ve had?

That I am like the person that I never wanted to be.

Again, I did a post on it. “just like her”

 

  1. What is the most illegal thing you’ve ever done?

Oh how can I do something illegal, I am the good girl!

Drive without helmets on! That’s it.

 

  1. How do you get in the way of your own success?

My fear drives in.

 

  1. What are you afraid people see when they look at you?

They just see my face, I know that, not even afraid of. No one looks at the real me.

 

  1. What is your biggest regret?

I never tried making my passion into a profession.

 

  1. What do you look down on people for?

Hypocrisy.

 

  1. What bridges do you not regret burning?

I burn them down, eventually I do.

 

  1. What lie do you tell most often?

“I am okay.”

And “yes ma, I am going off to sleep.”

 

  1. What would be your spirit animal?

Never thought of it.

 

  1. What is the best & worst thing about getting older?

Best- you experience life.

Worst- you never get to go back and be the kid again.

 

  1. What are you most likely very wrong about?

“That all men are same.”

 

  1. If you had a personal flag, what would be on it?

I seriously don’t know.

 

  1. What’s happened that changed your view on the world?

I have seen domestic violence through my eyes when I was 7. It was not at my home (thankfully) but I lost faith in humanity that day and I never outgrew that incident.

 

  1. What is the biggest lesson you’ve learned?

That no one, no one except your close family cares for you.

 

  1. What is the most immature thing you do?

I cling on to the teddy in my room when I read or watch tv. (I think I shouldn’t have said that.)

  1. What are you famous for among your friends & family?

Studying literature and books frantically.

 

  1. If your childhood had a smell, what would it be?

It didn’t have any smell.

 

  1. What one responsibility do you wish you didn’t have?

To look up for everyone, to stand against every wrong, to be the stronger one in my family. Even we fall apart sometimes.

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Please bear with me, tomorrow will be the last part of flaunting about me. :-!


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48 responses to “Know the blogger #4”

  1. Ben Aqiba Avatar

    Keep it going. Great post

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much.

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  2. kalyansparks Avatar

    I discussed about 100 th answer many times,but you denied it many times..it always reflect in your some of the posts.I can feel it buddy’s..and another answer ” all men are same” good..but after talking with me I am afraid that you would again go back to the same answer..( as I always do fl…you know*!!!!)

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Oh yes, I know you just can’t help not flirting.

      Like

      1. kalyansparks Avatar

        Noo..you are wrong..I can …it’s been a long time I did flirting.

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  3. myexpressionofthoughtsblog Avatar

    It’s nice knowing about you

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks a lot dear.

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  4. Parvathy Sarat Avatar

    That makes me think about dumb reasons for going to a city for graduation 🙂

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I know. It actually was a dumb mistake but it turned out pretty well too. so can’t complain.
      Thanks so much for stopping by.

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  5. radhikasreflection Avatar

    Great answers! We all have some regrets of the missed opportunities in life.. But from your answers, you paint a picture of a girl who wants to better herself. That is such a wonderful thing Moushmi.
    With your answer # 92, I felt you spoke my mind ❤ !

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much dear.
      And I do want to better myself with each passing day, with each moment, with each mistake.
      Also, about our compliments on writing, we just can’t help feeling that way, right?

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      1. radhikasreflection Avatar

        Yup. I feel there are so many phenomenal writers out here in the blogosphere and I am still learning to write……. Each person has his/ her own style. So though it may be a genuine compliment the doubt does arise in my mind!

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I can relate. 🙂
        And some of the work here is simply so beautiful, I can’t help but feel small in comparison, literally meagre is what I feel.

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  6. robertcday Avatar

    Nice flaunting! 🙂
    Love the part about clinging on to your teddy in your room when you read or watch TV! 😉

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  7. Vandana Avatar

    And if childhood had a smell! An interesting question. I would say the smell of a newly opened box of multicoloured plasticine!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      This smell seems wonderful. 🙂

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      1. Vandana Avatar

        The nostalgic smell of kindergarten!

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  8. Amal Avatar

    Extra ordinary.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much.

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  9. Akhila Avatar

    Nice “flaunting “😉… I loved that “fears drive me to success”.. maybe that’s the reason I want to learn swimming…I am really afraid while being in water…

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Me too.
      But I am yet to learn swimming!

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      1. Akhila Avatar

        So do you have a plan to learn swimming

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I have it every monsoon 😀

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      3. Akhila Avatar

        Haha..then?…

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Then the thought that my skin and hair is going to be harmed by that chlorinated water struck me, and I just do not take the initiative to go.

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      5. Akhila Avatar

        Aha…..wonderful excuse😉😂….

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      6. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahahaha, I know, right?
        Even my mom falls for that 😀

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      7. Akhila Avatar

        You are absolutely right….happy, no😉

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      8. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Not happy actually!
        I do want to learn it, I just want someone to accompany me so that there is someone to push me when I am scared to go in.

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      9. Akhila Avatar

        Oh..okay.. here I am… so let us charge ourselves.. in fact I am yet to decide whether I need to learn swimming…I wish…but a fifty – fifty state.. …so let us start, right…

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      10. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Yes, i guess so 😀

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      11. Akhila Avatar

        So what’s the plan….when will you start?..most probably I will think on the same after onam vacation…

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      12. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        When is onam vacation?
        I have no idea about that.
        By the way I have one more reason not to start swimming this year. I will not be here the whole of November for my sisters wedding.

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      13. Akhila Avatar

        Onam in September…..

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      14. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Oh, okay. so you going to be swimming in the holidays then?

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      15. Akhila Avatar

        Ha ha..not then, during that time, I will go to my hometown being vacation.. After coming back only, I can plan for swimming

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      16. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahaha, okay.
        And then it will be winters, so might as well put it up till summers 😀

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      17. Akhila Avatar

        You are trying to make me lazy….you girl…..
        Nope…I won’t make it to summer anyway as water shortage could be there there…decided😉

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      18. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahahah
        then when???? 😀

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      19. Akhila Avatar

        Oct Nov DEC…that’s the only possible months.. Need to plan

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      20. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Good luck then 🙂

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  10. Anita Avatar

    Happy to known more about you dear friend
    Have a very nice day
    Kisses

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks so much love.

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