When Your Friend gets Engaged!

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Wasn’t it just yesterday when we used to fight with each other for really nothing?

When we used to fuss over the group projects, and who would do it entirely, while everyone of us would just take the credit?

When we used to fight for notes?

When we wanted to duck behind last benches and avoid eye contact with teachers?

When we used to make plans, and unending plans of hanging out at each other’s places.

When we used to tease each other by saying who’d get married first?

When we would go to extremes to just make an ‘April fool’ of somebody.

When, we’d just finish our tiffin boxes way before the recess?

When we’d smile cunningly when someone’s crush passed by?

When we’d go to the same coaching only to be together and just kill more time?

 

Wasn’t it just yesterday, when we’d roam about the whole day, and open our books the night before the exams, and yet manage to pass?

When we’d get together right 15 minutes before the exam bell, and yet manage to explain the entire syllabus to each other?

wasn’t it just yesterday, when we were kids (Okay, at least teens) and had no trouble what so ever.

Where and how did we grow up?

 

Going to a distant relatives wedding, or your elder sister’s wedding is way different than going to your own friend’s engagement party, the one friend whom you know since childhood, with whom you grew up. Where did the  years go by?

I really can’t believe one of us is getting married, who knows who would be there next, on the stage, smiling and accepting wishes from others.

I must say, as much as I am happy for this dear friend, I am scared  too.

 


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67 responses to “When Your Friend gets Engaged!”

  1. radhikasreflection Avatar

    Yes, these are moments of mixed emotions, isn’t it Moushmi?

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Absolutely, I am really so happy for her, but then on the other hand it makes me realise that we have grown up 😦

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  2. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

    Its all a part and parcel of life, Moushmi and you wrote it so well. Such wonderful emotions have you written. Great post.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much. I agree it is a part of our life, and however much we try we cannot avoid it.

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      1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

        Welcome dear and yes absolutely true

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  3. Gouri (Gourav Anand) Avatar

    These events in life always give a mix of feelings,. some of them let feel happy and some wet eyes.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I know, thank you for your time 🙂

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  4. Vandana Avatar

    …you prepare to be the prettiest bridesmaid! 🙂 🙂

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I guess I am doing only that this whole year.

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      1. Vandana Avatar

        Isn’t that wonderful, though a tad bit tiring if you are on your toes!?

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        A tad bit tiring? Too much tiring!!
        I had no idea 2017, and 2018 would bring so many weddings. 😀

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      3. Vandana Avatar

        Well, a calendar full of happy weddings are a joy to sweat for….

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahaha, it sure is:) But don’t you think we give too much importance to weddings ?

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      5. Vandana Avatar

        Yeah we do..but I guess most of us just take it in our strides with a pinch of sequinned glitter😋

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      6. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Now, that’s a take on weddings 🙂

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  5. myexpressionofthoughtsblog Avatar

    Congratulations to your friend for beautiful new start!! The feelings can truly be understood as me and my best friend have gone through those few mixed feelings!!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and experiences.

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      1. myexpressionofthoughtsblog Avatar

        My pleasure 😇 dear

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  6. kalyansparks Avatar

    Are you scared of her or about the thought that ..next is you

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Next is definitely not me.

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      1. kalyansparks Avatar

        Hmmm…Them I have chance to try you..I have a Chance yaayyya😂😂😂😂😂😂

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        No, you don’t.

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      3. kalyansparks Avatar

        But I will try…until I die

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  7. Boss luffy Avatar

    Congrats moushmi…time flies…yours will come too…..sooner or later….how are you?

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I’d be glad if it would be a little later.
      I am fine, thank you. How about you?

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      1. Boss luffy Avatar

        M great…haha…everyone seems to want it later!!

        We should probably start the protest..no marriage until 35 atleast!!

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        No, I think it a person should be free to decide when and with whom he/ she wants to get married. There needn’t be a age restriction.
        I mean something like you have to get married before you get 28, have kids, by 30!!

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      3. Boss luffy Avatar

        Yup yup…its cool… moushmi…do it when you are ready.

        We are still young…and have a lot of time.

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Tell that to my parents 😀
        And you will get a nice long lecture.

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      5. Boss luffy Avatar

        Yeah…who won’t…parents will be parents….!!

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      6. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        And kids will be kids 😀

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      7. Boss luffy Avatar

        Always…ever and ever!!

        Yeh duniya nai manti…varna dil to bacha h ji

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      8. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahaha, but we do need to grow up after all.

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  8. Vishal Mehta Avatar
    Vishal Mehta

    Nice blog.
    Makes us realize how time has passed over the years and suddenly one of us is getting married soon..
    Its scary but at the same time its inevitable..
    Just one such phase of our lives.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I agree Vishal, as much as scary it is it is inevitable.
      But I am pretty sure, the next one to go down is you :-p

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      1. Vishal Mehta Avatar
        Vishal Mehta

        Dont be so sure moushmi.
        I have still got 2-3 yrs to decide..
        Do you??:-p

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Who is meeting girls as prospects?

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks so much 🙂

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      1. OIKOS™-Redaktion Avatar

        Always with a great pleasure. Thank you for posting, and have a great weekend. 😉 Michael

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  9. Sun and Moon Avatar

    My thoughts when my friend from grade school just randomly sent me photos from her wedding (wasnt able to come since I am miles and seaaaaaa away )..geee I’m getting old!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hahaha, I am glad you could relate. Thank you so much for reading this. 🙂

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