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Today’s Realisation!!

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We have come to live in such a society, among such people that you don’t expect people to really care these days. And when someone shows or even tries to show that he or she cares, it is so surprising that we need a moment to sit back and think about what just happened.

I have come to believe and assume that people in general really are selfish and mean, and also so very self obsessed, but once in a while I do come across so polite and selfless people that I have to sit back and think what and how it just happened? It takes me back, with so much surprise that all my mind asks is, “How was this person so nice? And more importantly, Why?”

It doesn’t matter if the person is helpful of not, all it matters is the intention of that person. Most people have just forgot to be simply nice.

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47 responses to “Today’s Realisation!!”

  1. Yuvi's Buzz Avatar
    Yuvi’s Buzz

    Yeah so true dear! When people are actually selfless and helping we don’t believe they actually are, coz v are used to seeing selfish, jealous people!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I hear you. Its everywhere the same.

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  2. the_aestheticspirit Avatar
    the_aestheticspirit

    The situation is such that if a person is nice we tend to doubt it that it must be for his/her own selfish means. It’s hard to believe someone being nice these days and it will be worst in future.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I agree with you..

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  3. educated unemployed indian Avatar
    educated unemployed indian

    I love reading your work. ❤︎
    I have nominated you for a blog award. If you wish to accept it or just want to take a look at it, here is the link to the post-
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  4. Adi Avatar
    Adi

    I so wish I had a point of view in this matter to share but its always good to read your posts..

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks Aditi, no matter what you are always an inspiration..

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      1. Adi Avatar
        Adi

        Thanks for those kind words Moush…but inspiration really is a heavy word and Its the other way round i get to learn so many things fom you people and so yeah I guess i am better being a friend(if only you are fine with that😉)

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Am I fine with that? I am shocked you ask that question (Extra drama here, absolutely intended :-p)

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  5. Abhijith Padmakumar Avatar
    Abhijith Padmakumar

    So true !! I can’t agree with you more. Awesome post 😊

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  6. viewsofpreethib Avatar
    viewsofpreethib

    Absolutely True…. Great post.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you 🙂

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  7. thewritewomanblog Avatar
    thewritewomanblog

    Was just talking about this to a friend recently who was upset that people these days care less about the feelings of others while they continue to remain inside their little sphere of ‘me and myself’ that it shocks us to take heed of someone who is not. I am in agreement with your thoughts

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks a lot for sharing your views, I totally agree, people do need to think beyond, ‘I, me and myself’.

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  8. Sifar Avatar
    Sifar

    That’s so true! It warms the heart if someone is really nice and caring but yes the question do arise then if it’s due to some malicious intent or genuine! So we need to be careful too since in general we usually come across mean and selfish people and such doubts are expected…. Both kinds of people exist in the world and if we really find a selfless honest person then we should consider ourselves very lucky and make sure never to lose that person! we should also try to be the selfless ones even if others are selfish as that is the defining difference…we need to be good natured for ourselves…for our conscience…warna sab log hi bure ho gaye to duniya ka kya hoga!! 😕😟
    Great post once again!! 👍

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you. I still am always unsure when I meet such selfless people, till the end, theere is always a hint a pang, that somewhere things will go wrong. He/she can’t be that good.

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      1. Sifar Avatar
        Sifar

        You have said it perfectly! If things go so well then we do have inner fear and doubt as to how is it possible…there surely must be something more than what meets the eye! But then maybe such people do exist and intention may be genuine? This reminds me of a short story ‘The Accursed House’ by Emile Gabriau….it was in my class 8 curriculum and i loved it! Do read it if you get a chance…so i feel maybe we should give a chance till whole truth is out?
        And another angle is maybe a perfectly selfless person doesn’t exist so should we compromise with someone who is like mostly selfless but selfish sometimes (but then we all have some weaknesses..maybe we ourselves can act selfishly sometimes!)…🤔…but on second thoughts it looks like a repulsive idea!….complicated!!!

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Well, it is complicated, only because we can’t read other people’s minds. If we had that ability, the problem would have been solved 😀

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      3. Sifar Avatar
        Sifar

        Yeah sometimes feel like if we could do what farookh sheikh did in ‘chamatkar’ serial!(it’s pretty old so not sure if you would have heard about it)…
        I really wish to have those powers and the power to go invisible 😬
        But jokes apart, yes we cant read minds but past experience can help us to be more cautious in future

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Well, you are right. Not heard about that serial. But yes, invisible powers does sound good.

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      5. Sifar Avatar
        Sifar

        Yeah it is an old one…he has ability to listen what people think in mind 😀

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      6. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        I wish I’d have that 😀

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      7. Sifar Avatar
        Sifar

        Haha….then no one will be able to mess with you!! 😎

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      8. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        That will do the trick.

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  9. aramblingcollective Avatar
    aramblingcollective

    I think a lot of people are only nice when they want something bigger in return.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Agreed. Thanks for stopping by.

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