Couple Goals!

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People around me often admonish me for cringing and cribbing at those who are always into โ€œcouple goals.โ€ I refer to those people who always have to wear matching dresses, ALWAYS, always have to do every single thing together, those who are constantly updating and publicizing their personal life on social media, I mean you donโ€™t have to tell everyone about your 4 month and 29 days togetherness! Okay, even if you want to and even if you do, I am no one to judge you, but still you might want to leave those who donโ€™t care about this. I donโ€™t really mind what these people do, but sometimes, I get a lot irritated, and my friends do give me a long talk on that! May be I am completely wrong to judge these people, I think I am. I mean who am I to judge someone who feels completely liberated even when being with the same person 24*7, it might be too much for me, but not for others.

Okay now, I am digressing! You get the point, about whom I am talking. And you also get that I am frowned upon when I cringe and make faces at these too sweet couples.

But my point is, I have been noticing some of these couples and I have a very weird realization. Recently I had a feeling about a couple that I know, that they seem to look alike, so alike that for a second youโ€™d believe them to be siblings.

What next? I did meet two people recently whom I thought to be brother and sister. But in actuality, they were a couple. Itโ€™s only good that I did not mouth my thoughts louder. But the similarities were striking!

And from there started a variety of thoughts and observations. And the more I observed the more I realized that some couples did look a lot alike! Not all, definitely not all, but some couples that I know, who have been together for a long period of time, did look so alike. It was a little bizarre to me. I mean matching dresses, similar phones, and similar profile photos werenโ€™t enough or what? That youโ€™d had to go and look spitting images of each other too? Okay I know this went a little too far. I am just kidding. This looking alike thing was kind of cute may be? Uuuuummmm. But as I said who am I to judge? ๐Ÿ˜‰

But is it only me, or any of you think so too? Do you guys notice such couples, or is it just my mind cooking?

PS: My couple goal is simple. I want to be crazy, just as crazy as I am, but this time, it’s with him!


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54 responses to “Couple Goals!”

  1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

    Nice read Moushmi and yes u see such couples sometimes and can be mistaken too for brother and sister. It’s nice to see love in them though sometimes more in public is a little awkward too.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks for reading this Kamal.

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      1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

        Welcome Moushmi

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  2. แด‡ ษด ษช ษข แด แด€ Avatar

    Umm, Matching dresses seems to be the central point of the post. And I have seen a lot more and a lot of it just irks me just like the matching dresses.

    So, who him?

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Hahaha, yes, apparently when I was writing it, nothing came to my mind apart from those matching dresses, but later a long list broke into my mind.
      But yes,, sometimes it’s too much.
      And “Who him?” Well, it’s a goal, I might have not reached there, ๐Ÿ˜€

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      1. แด‡ ษด ษช ษข แด แด€ Avatar

        Yeah, right. I omits believed you. Almost. ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahaha
        you did? But I still remember our solo coffees!! It’s still the same ๐Ÿ˜€
        What about you?

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      3. แด‡ ษด ษช ษข แด แด€ Avatar

        Him and you having different coffee doesnโ€™t mean you are being single. ๐Ÿ™„

        I have embraced the singledom and love, in itself is a lost concept on me.

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Hahaha okay, I guess I get your point.

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      5. แด‡ ษด ษช ษข แด แด€ Avatar

        Well, that’s good.

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  3. Shantanu Baruah Avatar

    Haha. I so agree. Couples are couple because they are different and forces of different Newtonโ€™s. The charm goes away if they are exactly like the other half. As you said more like siblings. Loved the read

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thanks Shantanu.
      It still does not bother me when they are so alike, or something, but what bothers me most is the lost individuality. When I see people so much in love, and all I can see is a couple, no sign of individuality, that’s when it bothers me. People tend to lose themselves sometimes, in someone else, mostly women. I don’t know how much of this makes sense.

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      1. Shantanu Baruah Avatar

        It sure does. I completely agree with you. Your individual identity is as important as your love to the other half. Well said

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Thanks again ๐Ÿ™‚

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      3. Shantanu Baruah Avatar

        ๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŒธ

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  4. the #1 Itinerary Avatar

    Great post ๐Ÿ˜

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you.

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      1. the #1 Itinerary Avatar

        No problem ๐Ÿ˜ check out my blog when you get the chance ๐Ÿ™‚

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  5. Sakshi Avatar

    Moushmiiiii I cringe inside Everytime I come across these beings …..not judging but they are beyond my understanding …. I mean love and all is fine but what happens to individuality

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Exactly my point! Love is fine, matching everything is fine, that is okay. But I hate to see people losing their individuality among others. May be they are okay with it, but if ever that happens to me, I’d die every single second. I am not saying getting lost in each other is wrong or something, that insane hopeless romantic stuff is fine too, even for me, but the line needs to be drawn when I can seee no more of myself, even in me.
      This is all I mean when I say I cringe. apparently I did not make myself very clear in the post.

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      1. Sakshi Avatar

        It was very clear my dear …u totally got your point and agree with it too

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        Thanks Sakshi.

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      3. Sakshi Avatar

        My pleasure

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  6. Sifar Avatar

    Echo with you completely here!! All of it!! It gets annoying….

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Look who’s back? Any update on your health front?

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      1. Sifar Avatar

        ๐Ÿ˜Š
        Yes better now. Lots of posts to catch up to ๐Ÿ˜ฐ

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
        Moushmi Radhanpara

        this is not a syllabus ๐Ÿ˜€

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  7. Rabindranath Pradhan Avatar
    Rabindranath Pradhan

    I agree with you.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      Thank you.

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      1. Rabindranath Pradhan Avatar
        Rabindranath Pradhan

        My pleasure.

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  8. The Count Gustaf Avatar
    The Count Gustaf

    Being crazy with him, [for me her] has always been fun

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I agree. Thanks for reading this.

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  9. buddy71 Avatar

    your PS says it all.
    yes, with social media, people seem the need to report about happenings in their life 24/7

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      I agree. Thank you.

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      1. buddy71 Avatar

        ๐Ÿ™‚

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  10. iScriblr Avatar

    Well, in all honesty, I really DO NOT really care about what the other couple does or how they behave!
    As long as two people, as a couple – understand, respect and love each other – Let them be! Why care? Let them find their happiness by wearing matching clothes or being mirror images of each other coz in all reality, we all have our different ways of expression and YES, we all have the freedom to be what we want to be.

    I’m not not saying that I do not agree to what you’ve said, but then, why bother losing your sleep on someone else’s love quotient! ๐Ÿ˜‰

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
      Moushmi Radhanpara

      hahaha You sound like my friends.
      And I know I am wrong to judge anyone, so I accept it. But yes, if at all at any point I do these things myself, I will come and share it here, so that you guys can laugh at my own double standards. ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜‰

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      1. iScriblr Avatar

        ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰

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